Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
Proverbs 17 KJV
Have you ever stopped everything and just listened? Observed your surroundings and been at peace. In a conversation, do you listen to understand what the other person is saying or feel what they feel. If you can relate to what the other person is feeling then that is what is called a relationship. Being in a relationship with someone can be therapeutic for both people. It is the reason people can be friends forever or until they can no longer relate to each other.